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Free Download He’s Scared, She’s Scared: Understanding the Hidden Fears That Sabotage Your Relationships by Steven Carter, Julia Sokol
English | January 2, 1995 | ISBN: 0440506255 | EPUB | 331 pages | 0.3 MB
To one degree or another, all of us are torn between two fundamental urges. On the one hand, each of us has a profound desire to merge with another human being and become part of something larger than self; on the other we have an equally basic need to feel independent, free to make choices without constraint or compromise. Finding a way to balance the urge to merge with the desire to be free is what commitment is all about. Here’s the problem: These two needs are diametrically opposed. Fear of commitment is the romantic dilemma of our time. It’s the reason why so many promising relationships fail; it’s the reason why so many men and women seem to be unable to find the love they say they want.